Transforming Joyless Sex

Sex, like all the best things in life, is an adventure! Jump in with enthusiasm!


How Do You Variate Your Speed During Sex???

Variation is good because it keeps things interesting. There are only so many things to switch up when it comes to the physical act of sex, and speed is certainly one of them. You don’t have to start out slow and then progressively go faster and faster. Feel free to go from fast to slow to medium speed and back to slow whatever fits the mood. 

So how do you variate your speed during sex? Do you read his or her signs, and if he/she seems to be out of the moment? Do you slow down to bring him or her back into it? 

The time to go fast is when you want to rile him or her up. Make sure she’s into it when you’re going fast, though, so that you don’t just seem like a horny rabbit. There is one time, however, when you should not switch tempo: if you sense he/she’s getting close to having an orgasm. DO. NOT. STOP. (Seriously.) 

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To prevent pregnancy naturally without a condom, one thing you can do is to get a copper T. Women who want to prolong motherhood and enjoy their sex lives can turn to this method. However, there are possible chances that you will not be able to conceive. The other possible way to prevent pregnancy without a condom is to for the woman to consume the pill. Here again, the side effects are in number and one should consume the pill often.

More than this, there are other possible ways to prevent pregnancy naturally without a condom. Take a look at these simple tips to avoid unwanted pregnancy:

The Safe Week

The safe period is the best way to prevent pregnancy without a condom. This means you can make love between the 8th day to the 20th day of a woman’s menstrual cycle. Here the first day of the period signifies day one of the menstrual cycles.

Pull & Pray Method

The pull and pray method or withdrawal method is also followed by a lot of couples. However, it is not completely safe. But, according to experts, this pull and pray method is about 83 percent effective, just equivalent to a condom which is said to be 84 percent safe to prevent pregnancy.

The Effective Copper T

The device is implanted by a trained doctor and can be removed when the couple is ready for conception. There are a lot of women who opt for this method to delay the chances of getting pregnant.

Always Stay On The Pill

No matter what, stick to the everyday pill. If you are not on the pill, visit a gynecologist and he/she would suggest what you should do. This is one of the best ways to prevent a pregnancy without a condom. The pill is your answer.

Love The Pre-intimacy

pre-intimacy helps to increase the intimacy without making love and the fear of an imminent pregnancy too. So, if you and your partner are not ready to be parents just yet, opt for this beautiful act of showing love.

Have You Ever Been “Taken”???

   In my life I have been taken a number of times and spoken with numerous others whom also have been taken. The experience can be strange and confusing, it took me years to piece together what was happening to me so to help anyone going through the same thing, I decided to make an easy to read and follow checklist which can help you decide if there is a physical problem, mental problem or if there is something more happening to you.
Why do people get taken? There are numerous reasons, the number one reason being that you have made some prebirth agreements spiritually to play a specific role which requires you to have a specific direction, thus council is often given to you consistently to fulfill your goals in life. Sometimes random people need guidance and is given in the same way, without interference in their life, thus is given subconsciously and removed completely from the conscious mind which is generally turned off during visits.
There are three different forms of contact. First and most common is telepathic, they connect to you and give you telepathic council, you feel like it was just an idea that popped into your head, as if it came out of nowhere. Second is spiritual contact, they disconnect you from your body and you attend meetings, the body feels a bit blah with no inner drive or direction but goes on as normal. The third type and most rare is actual physical contact, this requires a great deal of care to keep the rules of non interference which I will discuss later.
Some people have volunteered for other projects such as hosting a hybrid fetus with their uterus  for a few months, or donating semen for genetic engineering something that has always been done on this planet, and how man has evolved and changed form so many times in our history. The missing link are they who are our keepers. And continue as our world now is changing very quickly, so must we genetically.


***Cataclysmic Dreams***

1)Most contactees have described first before anything a series of dreams where they were in space being shown images of planets and then shown the surface of the earth, cracks in the ground, sink holes, volcanoes, earthquakes, islands falling into the ocean, or rising up from the ocean, fire raining from the sky, massive floods and tsunamis, and the many deaths that will follow. This warning becoming very common to those who take concern for the future and thus given a peek into the future. People often have bad dreams, sometimes scary where they dream of their world crashing down around them, a metaphor for what is happening in their lives. But there is a difference, the dream is emotionally charged, meaning there will be great fear involved with the dream and you will be in the middle of it experiencing it. With a communication it is like watching a movie, your engaged and interested, but there is no fear, and it will include images from space which you will not get in a dream.



2)  When you have been given contact, often there will include an implant to follow up on you if you request further contact. The implant is not metal, but more like a biological seed which will grow and merge with your central nervous system. This process takes about 24 hours to complete. These implants are very small when fully grown they feel like a small bb under your skin, it is designed to feel funny so you will play with it, when you do it becomes activated and sends info about where you are, and how your doing physically. Doctors often call implants “fatty tumors” as they to some extent look like one but with an implant, it will show up one day, stay for months or even years, then one day you will wake up and it will be gone just like that.


***Numb Limbs***

3) When the implant successfully connects to your central nervous system a test is conducted to let them know all is functioning properly. This test will often make one of your limbs go numb, this could be either an arm or a leg, even your back one side or the other, or your eyes. Sometimes it will even move on it’s own as part of the test. Don’t be afraid though cause it only lasts a few minutes to a few hours, this test will happen 24 hours after any contact you have which requires further assistance. MS can also cause some of these symptoms and so will a stroke, but believe me, you will know if it is something more, as it will progress, these tests do not last long and will always come right after your implant so you can expect it.


***Sudden Interest In Aliens***

4) When we have had this type of contact we are often subconsciously and very strongly drawn to aliens for no reason, even an obsession with them is quite common, this is because deep down we know what has been happening, the subconscious knows and is trying to tell us.


***Missing Time***

5) Missing time sometimes happens, higher logic says, well if you get abducted and then turn off your conscious memories only allowing you to subconsciously know your whereabouts, then you are returned, the person will have a few hours missing. But what also rarely gets reported is gaining time, and either is very possible and either is a clue generally given to you as a gift, something to help you understand there is something more happening so search within yourself.



6)  Often reports talk about there being sunburns on the skin after a visitation, speculation usually suggests it is from the light of the craft, but it is not. This is a result of a radiation bath which must be given to anyone given physical contact, and what this does is kill all the foreign germs our immune system would never be able to fight but can also cause some light skin burns.


***A Sudden Sense Of Purpose And Direction***

7)  Contactees often become obsessive activists with human rights, global pollution, and human suffering shortly after their first contact. Some get into politics, but they put themselves in a position where they can change things for the better, they tend not to sit on the sidelines and watch. Remember in all positions of power there will always be good guys and bad guys fighting behind closed doors, and the battle is far more intense then they will ever allow to be known.


*** Dreams Of Aliens ***

8) The subconscious often will drop hints to us through our dreams which is usually it’s only opportunity to speak. Sometimes these dreams can be scary due only to “fear of the unknown”, they look so strange, but try to remember there is never anything to fear from them.


*** Conscious Memories ***

9)  It is rare but it does happen sometimes, usually there is a higher purpose for allowing you to have these memories, but once in a while there was a glitch and you were just accidentally able to remember. Schizophrenia can also cause this, but with psychosis being a mental escape using chemicals and hormones the brain makes, it can be properly diagnosed and treated. A good psychiatrist will know the difference.


*** Clothes Removed ***

10) Why do you remove your clothes when in the presence of alien life? Germs to put it simply, their immune systems cannot handle our germs thus we need to put on sterile suits, when the meeting is over and you get dressed still functioning in a subconscious state, we often will put a shirt on backwards or sometimes not at all, thus when we snap back into our conscious mind we suddenly notice we are no longer dressed correctly. Sleep walkers can also do this in their subconscious activities but believe me, if your a sleep walker, everyone will tell you!!!


For those who think they may be going through this, in decades past this was fairly rare. Only about 15000 at any time on the planet subject to this. Now it is becoming much more common and will continue to become more and more common. Obviously those who have not experienced such a thing will think it all quite silly, and if you put yourself in their shoes, they should think it to be ridiculous, how could they not. Don’t ever be offended by it, just embrace it if that is who you are, I’m sure they will at least respect you for being honest about yourself and your thoughts. And also remember you are not alone!